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Created Date: 8-Jan-2015 |
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Prayer: A scene from a movie that this author heard, where the movie was not identified for me to give you, had a Priest saying on the witness stand in a courtroom:
The Priest said, "My prayers were answered." |
Many of us in our absence of actions and absence of speaking can cause others to sin. The Church Leader who does not speak the full truth of the scriptures is potentially causing people in the congregation to never stop sinning. We all as Christians, especially a Church Leader, are required and must be accountable in our speech and actions.
Matthew 18:6-8 | 6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. 7 Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh! 8 Wherefore if thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off, and cast them from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life halt or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into everlasting fire. |
An excerpt from contact information: When we recognize and understand that our gifts on understanding and speaking about the scriptures is from the Holy Spirit then we will receive increased wisdom, revelations and feeling of love from God and for God, along with the growing understanding of our frailties as sinners. When we think that we are somehow deserving and better than others because of increased knowledge of the scriptures, then we are purposely or unknowingly taking glory from God.
There are many people who love God, but publicly are putting their name above God on how they present themselves when speaking and acting in spiritual matters along with how they act in their public lives. If we are not humble, then we are harming ourselves and limiting the Holy Spirit.
There are two amazing examples, of many, in the scriptures with Joseph and Daniel who show the proper acknowledgment of the source of knowledge is God. Notice how they explained the gift of interpreting the dreams came from God and not themselves.
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Jeremiah 3:15 | And I will give you shepherds after my own heart, who will feed you with knowledge and understanding. |
1 Peter 5:1-5 | 1 The elders therefore among you I exhort, who am a fellow-elder, and a witness of the sufferings of Christ, who am also a partaker of the glory that shall be revealed: 2 Tend the flock of God which is among you, exercising the oversight, not of constraint, but willingly, according to the will of God; nor yet for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind; 3 neither as lording it over the charge allotted to you, but making yourselves ensamples to the flock. 4 And when the chief Shepherd shall be manifested, ye shall receive the crown of glory that fadeth not away. 5 Likewise, ye younger, be subject unto the elder. Yea, all of you gird yourselves with humility, to serve one another: for God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace to the humble. |
Hebrews 13:17 | Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you. |
James 3:1 | Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. |
1 Peter 3:15 | But in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect, |
Matthew 6:1-5 | 1 Take heed that ye do not your righteousness before men, to be seen of them: else ye have no reward with your Father who is in heaven. 2 When therefore thou doest alms, sound not a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, They have received their reward. 3 But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth: 4 that thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father who seeth in secret shall recompense thee. 5 And when ye pray, ye shall not be as the hypocrites: for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have received their reward. |
Galatians 6:6 | One who is taught the word must share all good things with the one who teaches. |
1 Timothy 3:1-7 | 1 This is a faithful saying: If a man desires the position of a bishop, he desires a good work. 2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, temperate, sober-minded, of good behavior, hospitable, able to teach; 3 not given to wine, not violent, not greedy for money, but gentle, not quarrelsome, not covetous; 4 one who rules his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence 5 (for if a man does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?); 6 not a novice, lest being puffed up with pride he fall into the same condemnation as the devil. 7 Moreover he must have a good testimony among those who are outside, lest he fall into reproach and the snare of the devil. |
There are several things lacking and missed in apparently most churches. These are the top three needs:
This author has heard a Pastor, on a Christian TV Show, speak about the use of modern-day stories are more relevant to help the listener understand scriptural verses. The use of modern-day analogies may have its place periodically but the question to ask then is "did God not make the scriptures to be relevant for today?"
There are highly intelligent people in the world who are captains of industry, top sales people, engineers, computer programmers, medical doctors with supporting positions, etc. who use concise language and are capable or reasoning a matter quickly. It can be insulting to many people or cause them to close their minds when hearing a Pastor's message that is filled with conjectures and stories that are too often given at an elementary education level. The Scriptures are always the best choice because the Scriptures are God Breathed and designed by God:
Using the Scriptural messages of people from the time in the Bible is always relevant, concise and with Spiritual significance to yield more fruit by the hearer of the Word of God.
Isaiah 55:11 |
so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it. |
Anyone who spends anytime listening to Ministries on the radio or Satellite radio along with going to Church, visiting Churches, or watching a Church Service on television is bombarded with too many Pastor messages that have:
2 Timothy 4:3 | For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear |
Human Being have the capacity to rationalize anything negative as justified and after time can have their thoughts on right and wrong be desensitized. This also applies to Christians besides the non-Believers. Sadly, it has been said by way too many Christians that "God would want me to be happy and anything I do is covered under the blood" which is obviously wrong.
On major Television Network News and Christian Broadcasting programs, there are often well know Christian Pastors and Authors who speak on topics or answer questions from the audience, where they are not prepared and end up saying some very ignorant comments. It is better to say something like "I do not know about that particular area" or "I will have to get back with you regarding that topic."
One example, which this author was very embarrassed for the Speaker occurred on Satellite Radio on March 12, 2017. A well-known Christian Author and President of a Bible College, when being interviewed responded to a question on Abortion and said that "Congressmen and Senators know that Abortion is wrong but they refuse to pass legislation to de-fund Planned Parenthood." There are so many problems with such a blanket statement such as:
There are many areas that have become part of a problem that could be described as almost epidemic. The unsaved world naturally is going to be against God but Christian Pastors are the Ambassadors who should be very wise and show intelligence when speaking. Also, Pastors should never be speaking with fear. Fear is the opposite of Faith. Pastors and anyone, including this author, who is a leader or in a position to teach needs to realize the greater scrutiny of a person's life by God and everyone that watches and listens.
1 Peter 3:15 |
but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect, |
James 3:1 | Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness. |
One of this author's good friends said that he no longer goes to Church because of the impression that Pastors are empire builders that have the goal of increasing membership volunteering and contributions for their own self-gratification and monetary benefits. After asking why this friend felt this way, he replied that while attending and volunteering, he too often heard comments from Pastors such as:
While, the mature in faith Christian knows that God uses all of us and Pastors need the support and monetary tithes to provide a place where people can come to hear a message that inspires and changes, the two bullet point comments have probably been heard by every Christian. The implication, for the listener, is the Pastor somehow is better than the listener and if the listener wants to be a better Christian, then volunteering and tithing is the Pastor's recommended solution. This is wrong for many reasons:
Pastors and people in leadership roles in any Church, need to appear more gracious and humbler when asking for anyone's time and monetary contributions.
This author's friend, also had the unpleasant experience of seeing the Pastor of a very large Church living in a very luxurious fashion, who often appeared very arrogant. It is the opinion of this author that many great Churches have amazing Works of God occurring in them, where it is too often seen that the Pastor believes that they are responsible for the Works of God. When this occurs and a Pastor tries to portray that their leadership is the reason why, then there will be people in the audience who will be turned away.
In a very broad and high-level view of the life cycle of many churches, the start is always God oriented and degrades over time.
Stage | Description | Explanation |
1 | The Serving Pastor | Pastor driven to work all church roles to help it succeed. |
2 | Repent Message Pastor | Pastor is wanting to help everyone in their Christian Faith. |
3 | Message Friendly Pastor | Church has grown and Pastor doesn't want to offend anyone. |
4 | Financial Concerned Pastor | Pastor is wanting more tithing to pay for expansion and higher salaries. |
5 | Power Oriented Pastor | Pastor sees the church as a power base and empire. |
6 | Politically Correct Pastor | Pastor's messages rarely call anyone into repentance. The Pastor makes the church a social club and general accountability is lacking in administration. |
There are many areas in a Church organization and services that require understanding, recognizing and learning how to deal with people. Everyone has specific traits and needs on communication and feeling valued.
As an example of one of the personality traits, that can disrupt and severely hurt a Church fellowship, is narcissistic people. A Church is often a haven or an oasis for a narcissistic person because the narcissist relishes and thrives off of getting others to give them attention, possible financial assistance and many other areas that are not in the Church's best interest.
Acts 20:29 | For I know this, that after my departing shall grievous wolves enter in among you, not sparing the flock. |
Pastors are going to be:
Pastors need to recognize that the Satanic Forces around all of us are also going to use weapons to discredit and destroy a Pastor. The Pastor's defender is God and when doing God's Will then God will always take care of the Pastor. How the Pastor handles the attacks is very important and must be done Biblically.
The Pastor and Leadership of a Church, and even a Bible Study Group, need to be prepared for temptations. It is almost beyond belief how many Pastors have been caught
publicly and exposed to the Media for the embarrassment of someone who is
representing God. The most common four areas are:
Not much needs to be explained scripturally why these four areas are wrong, yet there are still other areas of wrong doing. Pastors and Teachers have a greater level of accountability as explained in the scriptures such as 1 Timothy 3:1-17. If an explanation is required, then this ignorance of the importance of ambassadorship (3rd Commandment) of a church leader is proof of unwarranted leadership roles. Axiom Statement A Pastor, Evangelist or anyone in a position of Christian leadership that while in church leadership:
must immediately resign and NEVER return to a position of leadership in a Church or Ministry. In place of returning, after a long period of restitution has been attempted, then the person can return to a position of service only in a Christian congregation which involves no possibility of leadership. Returning to a role of leadership, puts God up for public shame. (Note: These six bullet points are part of the Four Greatest Sins. The only exception for leadership is someone in a prison scenario or a recovery group, such as Alcoholics Anonymous, where the leader and all members may be involved in one area of the six bullet points.) Forgiveness is absolutely there from God, but a Church Leader participating (or participated) in any of the six bullet points is similar to Esau not holding his birthright in high regards, which God required of all first-borns in the Old Testament Dispensation Period. Esau traded the birthright for a bowl of stew to eat, as read in Genesis Chapter 25. Esau forsook his birthright responsibility which his parents, his brother Jacob and others witnessed or learned later thus putting God up to public shame. The consequences for Esau are explained more fully in Hebrews 12:15-17
If any of us are going to a place of worship that has leadership, by someone who has committed anyone of these six bullet points while being a church leader, then we:
Attending a place of worship, with a leader who committed any one of these six bullet points while being a church leader, then this puts God up to public shame because the person was a spokesperson for God. The ramifications are:
Again, the person is absolutely forgivable, but should not be in a leadership role of any kind in a Church, Ministry and even a Bible Study. |
Pastors should keep in mind that some nationally and internationally well-known and respected Pastors / Evangelists, that appear to be truly Christians, have participated in these areas and have fooled millions of people before being exposed.
It is the opinion of this author that besides charlatans, there are many good Pastors who love God, but are using their position for all types of gains which will eventually be publicly exposed because it is a misuse of God's name.
Exodus 20:7 | You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name. |
Unless we all think the problems with Pastors is a recent phenomenon, consider what Napoleon Bonaparte said many centuries ago:
"I am surrounded by priests who repeat incessantly that their kingdom is not of this world, and yet they lay their hands on everything they can get."
Also, there is the instructions for a King of Israel, which is in a higher position of authority over people than a Pastor, where a Pastor should know they are accountable not to do the three things listed (updated to modern terminology):
Deuteronomy 17:15-17 |
15 you shall surely set a king over you whom the Lord your God chooses; one from among your brethren you shall set as king over you; you may not set a foreigner over you, who is not your brother. 16 But he shall not multiply horses for himself, nor cause the people to return to Egypt to multiply horses, for the Lord has said to you, You shall not return that way again. 17 Neither shall he multiply wives for himself, lest his heart turn away; nor shall he greatly multiply silver and gold for himself. |
Lastly, it is quite evident also, regarding problems in the Church, that there are wolves that have come into the congregation as Matthew 7:15-20 warns us all.
Matthew 7:15-20 | 15 Watch out for false prophets. They come to you in sheep s clothing, but inwardly they are ferocious wolves. 16 By their fruit you will recognize them. Do people pick grapes from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? 17 Likewise, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. 18 A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, and a bad tree cannot bear good fruit. 19 Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. 20 Thus, by their fruit you will recognize them. |
The solution always for a Pastor is to pray before composing thoughts regarding the message to be given on an upcoming Church Service or Event. A good method is to write down general topic thoughts and begin reading the Bible along with searching on the Internet or in a Concordance to have the Holy Spirit guide content. Consider:
It has been said by many Pastors, "If you do not like the message that I am teaching from the Scriptures, then take it up with the home office as I am just the salesman representing the product who is God."
The sequence of the Seven Churches in the Book of Revelation represent a pattern of the health of the Church throughout the history of formation before the Tribulation Period. Many Biblical Scholars state that we are living in the last Church age of the Laodicean Church which is noted for having a name but nothing else because they were lukewarm. Read Revelation 3:16. This is a warning to consider in leading your congregation. It is not this author's intention to make a joke but I often state "we are living in the LameOdicean Church Age", which is a derogatory comment meaning lame.
We all have heard about or seen the signs at National Parks which state for visitors not feed the animals because this will teach the animals to beg for food rather than do what is natural for the species. Pastors need to realize, beyond John 21:17, that part of their ministry to the congregation is to teach them to help themselves and learn on their own and in small home groups. Numerous Churches have published articles that show that the greatest growth by their members occurs in home study groups.
John 21:17 | The third time he said to him, Simon son of John, do you love me? Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, Do you love me? He said, Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you. Jesus said, Feed my sheep. |
One of the hidden dangers that every CEO, Owner of a company and Manager will always face is employees reporting that
If the Pastor is doing something wrong then most likely it is not going to be said because the Pastor's Church employees are often afraid of discussing anything critical which might cause them to be terminated. Additionally, in the Christian arena, people are hesitant of offending. (Read more on Power regarding this area.)
What often seems to happen to Pastors, is egos are inflated and there is a belief that every is going perfectly where God is using them mightily. The Pastor should consider if things are going perfectly, then the Pastor's Church is not being attacked by Satanic Forces. This means the Satanic Forces do not see the Pastor's Church as a much of threat to their missions to destroy the Christian.
Pastors always need to remember that Church is a Hospital for Sinners so a Pastor is ALWAYS dealing with people with problems. People, in many cases, are going to be offended. When the Scriptures are being taught, God's Word calls all of us to conviction that leads to better lives and a Faith and love for God.
Many Pastors daily are confronted by people coming for help in so many painful circumstances like adultery, addictions, abuse, loss of job, financials problems to name just a few. Professional athletes, who practice during the week before the game on a weekend, always need a day or two to recuperate. The Pastor, when counseling too many hours will need time to recuperate also. When a Pastor resumes to focusing on the general requirements of preaching God's Word then there can be the danger of the Pastor refusing or avoiding any positive constructive criticism with the thought it will negatively influence a sermon. The refusing is because the Pastor has reached a threshold of too much negativity.
Solutions to understanding and dealing with getting weary of facing potential negativity along with other areas:
This is an excerpt from the
"Removal of a Pastor" topic: This section of this topic is dealing only with Church Leaders who commit adultery. It does not apply to someone:
All Christians, that are in any kind of Church leadership which includes this writer who is a role of an Evangelist, are called to a higher level of accountability, James 3:1, where there are gifts by God given for the role. If a Church Leader commits adultery, then that person is putting Jesus Christ in a position of "public disgrace" which is part of the offense listed in Hebrews 6:4-8 shown below where Christians and also non-Christians are looking, trusting, relying on and depending upon a Church leader for guidance and leading by example. It unfortunately has to be stated that God and all of us absolutely require our spouse, sons, daughters, friends, visitors and even ourselves have protection and no fear from the predatory act of adultery by a Church leader in a Church venue and also in the life of a Church leader.
ONE OF THE GREATEST PROOFS that a person serving in Church Leadership should never return to the role of leadership after adultery is given in the scriptures concerning Moses, who did NOT commit adultery, but falsely represented God. An adulterous Church Leader has misrepresent God. A few Biblical Scholars, which this author agree, state that Moses is a perfect example of the seriousness of representing God correctly. Moses for 40-years lead Israel during the Exodus, and there one incident that God forgave him but the significance of misrepresenting God had a very punitive consequence. Some of us might initially think it is not fair for this to happen to Moses after 40-years of faithfulness, until we realize we cannot commit specific sins that will publicly dishonor God and God's Glory Moses is one of the greatest teachers in the scriptures, that far surpass any modern-day Church Leader's abilities. The mistake that Moses made occurred during the Exodus wandering when Israel needed water. God had instructed, in an earlier occasion to strike a rock to bring forth water for Israel. On the next occasion, God instructed Moses to ONLY speak to the rock and water would come forth for Israel. On the second occasion, Moses was angry at the people so Moses strikes the rock disobeying God, Numbers 20:6-12. Moses misrepresented God by striking the rock the second time, which gave the impression to the people that God was angry at the people, when God was not. Also, the striking of the rock the second time, broke the model of the future Jesus Christ missions. The rock is an idiom for Jesus Christ and the water the Holy Spirit, where Jesus Christ was to be smitten once in His first mission at the Cross, and not smitten the second time in His Glory. Moses then had the consequence of not being able to enter the Promise Land.
There is the question if God will be still present in an adulterous and repented church leader's work at a Church? Yes is the answer, but that is because God's Word will never go out void, Isaiah 55:11, but every moment the adulterous repented church leader is working in church leadership is a sin against God. Furthermore, if makes God appear to have no power to change lives if a church leader, who should be mature had adultery even in the past, and can sin in such a grievous sin.
God absolutely still loves a Church leader who has committed adultery and the sin will be forgiven by God, but there are still consequences besides no longer being a role of Church leadership for the remainder of their life. Grace and Mercy applies to all of us, as everyone of us are sinners, where there are always other areas to serve God and build Rewards in Heaven because of our love for Jesus Christ. |
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